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Open Question: does a skirt with kisses mean your ...gay?
im not gay i just got it bc it looked cute its a black skirt with a bunch of kisses on it?and someone said shave girls been kissing your skirt?????????????????????   read more

Open Question: what is an example of theme in romeo and juliet?
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Open Question: How to deal with stress and family problems. Please help!?
Basically, I am 20 years old and I am in my 2nd year at university and I love being there because it has allowed me to escape in a way from my family and all the problems I had whilst I was at home. Basically, I live with my mum and my older brother (he's 21) at home during the holidays and every time I come home I get blamed for the financial problems that we have. My mum and brother are useless with money and they get themselves into debt because they cannot handle their own money. When I left for uni, the benefits my mum got for being a single parent with a child in education ended and suddenly I became the bad guy for wanting to study in London and make something of my life. My dad lives 30 mins away from us at home with his new wife and my parents have been divorced for 15 years and all my mum does is compare me to him in terms of selfishness and everything. This isn't true because I have given my mum a lot of the money that I am supposed to be living on and I lent my brother £500 and he is paying it back really slowly. My mum borrowed some money off my aunty and she asked me to help pay it back for her. I was more than willing to until nearer Christmas, my money was running out quickly because my rent was more than i expected and I had to pay some money off my student credit card. My mum completely kicked off and shouted at me and told me to get out of her sight and never to come back again from uni (this isn't the first time she has said this, she usually apologises after a few days). I said she was overreacting and said that my aunty isn't exactly desperate for this money and all my mum had to do was wait until I had a bit more money. I have never forgotten how she suddenly changes how she is and slags me off to all our family members when it suits her. My dad said she is jealous of me because I am the first person in my family to go to uni and because I want to be a solicitor she is apparently jealous of my ambitions and the fact that I have such a good time at uni. My brother on the other hand encourages me to go out and have a good time because I didn't have much of a life at home but he never offers to help my mum and he lives with her!!! He has loads of money each week but he spends it on going out with his friends and am I wrong for thinking why is she asking me when all I have is my student loan and he is actually earning money???? My dad doesn't support me financially and he won't either. I can't cope with these constant problems. I have IBS and i feel ill a lot of the time because of these problems and I have just been diagnosed with polycystic ovaries and all my mum said to that was "oh well". Someone please advise me. I am struggling to cope. ( I cannot stay with any other family members during the holidays either)   read more

Open Question: Why would she say this?
I've known her for a year we worked together and had a fling and were like boyfriend and girlfriend for 6 months. We stopped working around October although there was another part time job which I would see her at in November which is starting again soon so I might see her once a month. I contact her twice and week and she txts me sometimes but not much. We got on well but she wasn't over her ex so that is why she never went out with me properly. We speak most weeks but have had less calls recently especially since the start of the year. She told me on the phone she was really hungover and then when I spoke she was quiet...made me feel like I was a stranger to her and she wasn't opening up much. She then randomly said "We have not seen eachother in a year" and then went back to being quiet. It has been since November that we saw eachother but I we haven't had a good chat like we used to since about Mid September. Last time things were really good between us were early August. I mentioned to her it's been about six months and that we should have a good chat sometime she was quiet again. We actually had oe real date which was a year ago but hung out alot at work and once with my friend and hers. Why would she say it feels like a year, is she saying I'm like a stranger now? should I stay in contact?   read more

Open Question: On that show the office, do you think Pam and Jim's relationship is realistic?
Pam is so stupid...she's crazy. Jim was handsome, he did EVERYTHING for her, he loved her for so long and that lady kept rejectecting him. She was such an idiot. She said no like 10000 times. And then still flirted with him.... Why was Jim limited to only her? He was handsome, and if he left the office...he could have easily found someone else. The show acted like Pam was the only woman in the world, and I GET that he loved her, but in real life, if she said no that many times, would he keep moaning over her like that? And even that whole time he was dating Karen, it was basically just to make Pam jealous. I wish life was like that, but does if Pam was real and had rejected him that many times, wouldn't he have just moved on at that point? As in dating women outside of work? Again, he is really handsome and he could have found someone prettier than pam who ACTUALLY liked him back and didn't keep leading him on just to reject him.   read more